Legacy
My awesome dad and I
A lasting legacy is not measured solely by wealth or possessions. It is rare to read an obituary for someone that goes into detail about the car they drove, how big their house was or the size of their bank account. Instead, our legacy is defined by the positive and enduring impact our life has on others—friends, family, colleagues, and even those you have never met who perhaps do not look like you, speak like you or originate from your country. Our legacy is the reflection of our values, our actions, and the way we made people feel. Whether you built a business, uplifted your community, or simply brought joy and kindness to everyday interactions, your legacy lives on in the lives you have touched.
The path to leaving a legacy—and the scope of that legacy—is deeply personal. For some, it may mean being the first in their family to earn a college degree. For others, it could be starting a mission-driven business, volunteering with nonprofits, choosing a life of faith, or consistently showing empathy and respect to others. It may be that you had a sense of humor, never met a stranger or always had a smile and kind word to say. There is no single blueprint—what matters is that your life reflects what you stand for.
Leaving a legacy that goes beyond material things is especially meaningful. It speaks to who you are at your core. While money can provide comfort, it is the intangible contributions—your wisdom, kindness, resilience, and principles—that echo across generations.
Here’s why non-material legacies matter so much:
Lasting Influence: Your values and example can guide others long after you are gone—shaping how they live, lead, and treat others.
Deeper Fulfillment: Making a difference in someone’s life often brings a deeper sense of satisfaction than any external achievement can offer.
Positive Social Impact: Whether through mentorship, service, creativity, or advocacy, your efforts can help shape a more just and compassionate world.
Ongoing Inspiration: By living with purpose, you motivate others to do the same—encouraging growth, empathy, and meaningful contribution.
The good news is that legacies are not set in stone. It is never too late to reflect, shift, and intentionally shape the impact you want to have. Consider those you admire—what made their legacy powerful? Often, it is not just their accomplishments, but the values that guided them and the principles they embodied. For me, I think of the example set by my father—his legacy of kindness, hard work, service, purpose, and integrity still guides me today.
Even when it was not the easiest thing to do, it seems dad always did the right thing. I can remember way back when there was a time that we did not have a car. The military van would pick up dad for work every day. However, mom took a job off base at a donut shop and some days she had to be at work before sunrise. Dad did not want mom to walk to work by herself in the dark, but we didn’t have a car. This was way before ridesharing programs. My sister and I were too young to be home alone so the best solution was for all of us to get up and walk mom to work. That’s what we did. We had quality family time during that short walk and could enjoy seeing the sunrise together. When dad, sis and I returned home, he would make us breakfast and get us ready for school before he had to go to work. That’s just one of the many memories I have of his lasting legacy. His purpose was to provide for the family.
Without a sense of purpose, life can feel like a ship adrift without sails—moving, but directionless. Purpose anchors us. It shapes our decisions, relationships, and the way we grow. Understanding your values allows you to live with intention—and in doing so, craft a legacy worth remembering.
Legacy is not optional. Whether or not we realize it, we are all leaving one. But the power lies in choosing to be intentional about what that legacy will be. When you lead with your values and live with purpose, your life becomes more meaningful—and the impression you leave behind becomes timeless.
In the end, a true legacy is not about what you owned. It is about who you were. And that is the legacy that lasts.
Take care of yourself and each other!