Curiosity

Many of us have heard the saying, "Curiosity killed the cat." Traditionally, this phrase served as a warning against being overly inquisitive. However, when channeled wisely, curiosity is not a liability—it’s an incredible asset, both in the workplace and at home. Approaching situations with an open and inquisitive mindset fosters understanding, innovation, and stronger relationships.

The Power of Curiosity at Work

When faced with a colleague’s action or decision that you don’t understand or agree with, you have a choice. You can react with frustration, judgment, or irritation—emotions that rarely contribute to a productive or positive work environment. Alternatively, you can respond with curiosity. By asking thoughtful questions and seeking to understand rather than judge, you open the door to learning, collaboration, and creative problem-solving. When I bring a new idea to my leadership, instead of shooting it down or adversely judging it, more often than not, my boss will say: “tell me more about that.” The entire idea may not be good. However, there may be some useful piece that’s workable that can only be found when she comes from curious. Also, with that curious viewpoint, I’m more inclined to feel comfortable brainstorming and bringing creative ideas to the team.

A workplace culture that encourages curiosity leads to:

• Innovation and problem-solving – Fresh ideas emerge when people are encouraged to question and explore.

• Stronger relationships – Genuine curiosity fosters deeper connections and mutual respect.

• Continuous learning and growth – A curious mindset keeps individuals and teams adaptable and forward-thinking.

• Conflict resolution – Seeking to understand different perspectives helps defuse tensions and build common ground.

Curiosity in Everyday Life

Curiosity is just as powerful in our personal lives. It keeps daily experiences engaging, fosters open communication and enhances relationships—especially in parenting. Asking questions and seeking to understand those around us strengthens emotional bonds and creates meaningful connections.

A Personal Story

I’ve always been curious, asking my parents many questions as a child - even some hard ones. Why is water wet? Where do babies come from? Where do we go when we die? Of course, which came first, the chicken or the egg? As an adult and a corporate leader, I still ask curious questions.

My mother has always been a fantastic cook. She can create miracles in the kitchen. Many will agree that there is nothing like a home cooked meal made by your mother. Growing up, I remember that every so often, mom would cook turkey for dinner. It wasn’t a holiday meal, and it never looked like the full, golden-brown turkey I saw in pictures and on TV. Instead, she always cooked just the turkey breast. While it was delicious, I often wondered why we never had the whole bird.

One day, after complimenting her cooking, I curiously asked why she only cooked the turkey breast. She explained that it was how my grandmother had always done it. That answer wasn’t enough for me, so I waited until my grandmother visited and asked her directly. Her response surprised me. She said that back in the 1950s, her stove was too small for a full turkey, so she always bought and cooked just the breast or half of a turkey. My mother had never thought to ask why—she simply followed tradition.

The Lifelong Value of Curiosity

Curiosity is often defined as “an eager desire to know” or “the desire to learn something new or unknown.” It has been a driving force behind human progress, expanding our knowledge and deepening our connections. Just as hunger fuels the body, curiosity fuels the mind. I have found that living life as much as possible in true curiosity instead of judgement can make a marked difference in relationships and results.

By embracing curiosity—whether in the boardroom, the living room, or the kitchen—we create richer, more fulfilling experiences. So, the next time you find yourself in a situation of uncertainty or disagreement, ask a question instead of assuming. You may be surprised by what you learn!

Take care of yourself and each other!